There is a very simple way of determining if we are listening to the voice of shame or the voice of Love.
If what we are hearing brings us Peace we are hearing the voice of love.
Shame speaks first and Never brings Peace. Love simply Is and speaks the language of Peace. Shame always is about “doing” something, When we listen to shame we get more agitated, confused, and less contented or peaceful. When we listen to Love we settle down, feel clear, contented, and more peaceful.
Sometimes we make things really hard. What voice is the voice of what?
I love to keep things simple. Love = Peace.