Pyromaniac Cafe


I have been reporting about the “fire walk”.  The show was on Sunday and I am happy to say that I did it and absolutely enjoyed it.  I faced my fear of singing in public.  What was amazing to me was the process.  I started out thinking I would learn to sing.  What ended up happening was having the realization that I did not have to sing well to do what I wanted to do.  I reclaimed my voice in all its imperfection.  I cannot tell you how healing it was.

Shame is lead by perfectionism.  It basically says that you have to be really good at something so you don’t make a fool of yourself.  Well, it lies.  We get to do what we want and enjoy our lives whether we are good at something or not.

I feel free.  I don’t have to prove myself or be a great singer to sing.


One comment

  1. WAY TO GO!!!! I need to look at this in my life…uncover what hidden stuff I may want to try that I’ve not even considered cuz I won’t do it well. Fun to think about and CONGRATULATIONS. T

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